SEX & RELATIONSHIP

Does size matter?

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Yes, it does. Is hard for women to admitted but it does matter. As easy as it is for women to modify their body, getting bigger breasts, transforming their vagina or labia is harder for men to get bigger penises with plastic surgery and certainty more expensive. The procedure can cost an average of 15.000 dollars while the average cost of breast augmentation surgery is $3,824, according to 2018 statistics from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons.

So let`s say that not every guy can afford it but the satisfaction rate with the results are at least β€œhigh” or β€œvery high” according to The Journal of Sexual Medicine reported on a surgical study evaluation of 400 men who underwent the Penuma procedure. The results are definitely an increased size but not the most attractive one so better talk to your doctor about your expectations before.

And please don`t waste money on oils or supplements, they will not make your penis larger. I know you feel insecure about your size but please try a cock ring or just a vacuum pump if you don`t have the money for surgery. But you can also become a master in satisfying your partner in other ways like fingering or oral sex. Plus, not the length is so important as thickness.

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β€œWomen reach orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation, indirect clitoral stimulation, vaginal stimulation or stimulation of internal areas surrounding the vagina. Some women experience orgasm solely from sexual intercourse, whereas other women require concurrent stimulation of the external parts of the clitoris in order to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, and some women never experience orgasm in intercourse under any conditions.”

Kim Wallen, Ph.D. and Elisabeth A. Lloyd, Ph.D in their paper Female Sexual Arousal: Genital Anatomy and Orgasm in Intercourse

So unlike men who β€œnearly 100% of men routinely experience orgasm solely from sexual intercourse” women need extra gestures to find pleasure. So big dick can lead in most of the times to no orgasm. And trust me I know and a lot of women complain about big penises, especially when they are not turned on. Fucking a big dick on dry hurts like hell.

So yes, small dicks are not desirable by most women and that doesn`t make them shallow and superficial with loose vagina as I read a comment once. You cannot shame a woman for what she knows she enjoys.  She can admit that she is pleased by bigger penises and that is ok. You cannot expect her to just sit there during sex and endure it just for morals, for not hurting her partner`s feelings. But, there are plenty of women out there that enjoy more clitoral arousal and are ok with using toys to get over the size of a penis. Find them. I know a few and they said they had some of the best sex of their life with average-small dicks because they were compensating with other skills